Living in Florida, sizzling is an understatement right now. I’ve lived down here for over 20 years, yet this native New Yorker still can’t get used to the 90 degree heat with a 100 degree index. Everyone comes out of the woodwork to frolic and play, and I’m not talking about Disney.
Each week, I look forward to doling out tasty little morsels of divine bliss with the hope of putting a smile on that beautiful face of yours. I share from my heart to yours what I know to be true for all of us — within you is the divine right to live a life filled with juicy goodness. Why deny something you truly want for yourself? Why deny the world of your juicy love? Oh, I know! Some of you may be wondering whether you have any juicy love to give. I’m here to tell you that YOU most certainly do! It’s time for you to step into your sexy and sassy greatness and SIZZLE!
Depending on your upbringing or background, I know this can be a stretch for some of you, so work with me for a moment. If you’ve followed me for any length of time, you know I talk about the evils of the dreaded Good Girl Syndrome. You know, those beliefs you were fed as a child (and beyond) of how a “proper” girl is SUPPOSED to act. I lovingly challenge my clients in my Rockin’ Love Goddess Program – who feel unfulfilled, who have a strong desire to experience more and who question themselves wondering – ”I followed all the rules, so why aren’t I happy?”. How is the Good Girl Syndrome working for you? Does any of this sound familiar? The Good Girl Syndrome has robbed many sassy Divas and their partners of their joy. Instead, it implanted pesky inhibitions and now you’re crying to break FREE! You want to get your “Sexy Back”! And the Divas in my Rockin’ Love Goddess Program do just that, as they are guided in confidence training in the art of seduction and charisma.
Here are 3 sexy secrets to help you go from fizzle to sizzle:
Sizzle Tip #1: OMG…Enjoy Toe Curling SEX!
Sex isn’t a guilty pleasure – Sex is bliss, sex is fun – Sex is “adult play”. When we were kids, we knew how to have fun and frolic. We laughed, played dress up, and flexed our imaginative muscles in the creative games we conjured up. What happened? We tell ourselves, we grew up and life happened – bah humbug! Sex feels good because it’s meant to be enjoyed, not held captive by the limiting beliefs we impose on this delicious source of creativity. If you believe the body is an amazing natural wonder which knows how to heal itself, whose bodily functions work in perfect synchronicity that knows just what to do; then it can also be said our sexual urges are exactly what they’re supposed to be. They are natural and part of a healthy and vibrant life. When you embrace, without judgment, the pleasures of sex and intimacy, you transport your body, mind and spirit to a place of divine play in the purest form. Your bedroom is your new playground, your lover is your playmate and your toys are his yummy love wand, a vibrator, and a blindfold, to name a few. Imagine entertaining yourselves with an arousing game of naked Twister. Feel, touch, taste and smell the desires of the flesh and bask in this euphoria allowing your sexual joy to SIZZLE!
Sizzle Tip #2: Be Unforgettable!
Embrace this concept for a moment, a Seductress is the Mistress of sex appeal whose presence commands attention. She knows her body is a temple, so she treats it divinely both inside and out. Regardless of your shape or size, if you treat your body temple with respect – Love It, Cherish It, Appreciate It – your body will naturally work its magic to lovingly support you.
To maximize the heavenly nature of “Your Body”…Be Unforgettable!
As a Sizzle Siren, you have to personalize your appeal. It’s not about keeping up with the latest trend, but creating and making it uniquely yours. What is unique about you? What are your positive qualities? Let them shine! This is the beacon of your bold confidence. I’ll let you in on a secret, Hollywood may lead you to believe we all need to be a carbon copy of each other, but find peace in knowing everyone isn’t looking for the same thing. It would be a boring world if we were. Just as there are a vast variety of people on this planet, there are a myriad of needs, wants and desires to fulfill. Ask yourself? Do you find the same men attractive? Some maybe, but all? Of course not. A certain type of person appeals to you. This doesn’t mean all the other men are undesirable, they just don’t appeal to you. And the same holds true for you, so try not to take things personally. You are “desirable”! I coach my Divas to magnify their yummy energy and to step into their sexy self-confidence. When you do that, you are guaranteed to SIZZLE and shine!
Sizzle Tip #3: Expand your WEB of seduction, infuse “Your Mind” with an Optimistic Attitude
You were born as a loving being with an innate sense of optimism and jubilance. But somewhere along the way this inherent joyfulness slowly slipped away. What benefit has your life received by holding onto pessimism, doubt and fear? Has doing so improved your life in any way? Or, has it flushed your pleasure down the preverbal toilet? What if you knew fear was nothing more than “False Evidence Appearing Real”. Now ponder the thought of what your life would be like if you embraced your intrinsic sensibilities of happiness and wonder. Picture it, feel it, now embrace it!
One great way to promote an optimistic attitude is to stop wasting any of your precious energy “complaining”. Complaining is like “poison”, it slowly decays what is healthy and vibrant about YOU. It may earn you pity but it doesn’t give you what you want. Instead, focus on the possibilities. Focus on what you want for yourself. Focus on how you can uplift vs tear down. In doing so, you transform yourself from fizzle to Sizzle!
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