Are you wondering how to know if a man is in love? Let my guest expert, Alexandre Cormont, France’s #1 love and relationship expert tell you everything you need to know right here!
When you start dating a man that you’re serious about, it comes as no surprise that you’d want to find out ‘how to know if a man is in love!’ Is he serious about you, too? Or is he just selling dreams and will end up leaving after you’ve had sex? I know how hard it can be to understand what’s going on in a man’s mind sometimes, especially because we aren’t always the best at expressing ourselves.
Fortunately, there are some clear signs he’s in love that you can keep an eye out for, and I would like to go over them with you in today’s article. When it comes to men, we need to pay attention to their actions more than their words. I’ll often see guys telling a woman that she’s so beautiful, that he wants to be with her, only to fall off the face of the earth two weeks later. This is why it’s so important to focus on actions.
So if you want to know if he’s in love with you, you’re in luck. I’ve got three telltale signs that he is, and I’m also going to start things off by explaining how to tell if he’s serious about you. Let’s get started, ladies!
How to know if a man is in love with you
Dating is a challenging thing because it’s full of uncertainties. I know you want to find a real connection, and you want to be with a guy that’s sure about his feelings. All too often I work with people who have found themselves in situations where everything looks great on paper, but it turns ot that the guy isn’t sure about his feelings, he doesn’t know what he wants, whether or not he wants to be in a relationship… But you need to know if he’s serious!
So when you want to know if a man is in love, there are a couple of things to keep in mind.
Firstly, men are attracted to a challenge. They want a woman who is confident in what she brings to the table, a woman who loves the life that she’s creating for herself. When we, as men, see a woman who is fulfilled and genuinely happy in her life, we think, “Wow, I could learn something from her. She could enrich my life!” This is why I always stress the importance of maintaining the challenge. I know that it’s so easy to bend over backward and hand everything over on a silver platter to a person that you love, but you need to be careful to make sure you’re not making it easy for someone to take you for granted.
Now, if you are wondering, “Is he in love,” I encourage you to take a look at his efforts. Is he involved in the process? A man who is serious about you wants a real relationship, and he will take action to show you that he’s invested. He’ll text you, he’ll call you, he’ll organize dates, and he will be active in the development of this relationship. You want a man that proves to you that he’s serious about you!
Just remember, even the most serious guy in the world needs a woman who can make an effort, too. What does this mean exactly? Weren’t you supposed to remain the exciting challenge by not bending over backward for him?
Here’s the trick. You’ve got to be busy in your own life, making it better than ever. At the same time, invite him into it! See how he reacts when you invite him to share the activities you enjoy doing? Is he present? Is he enthusiastic? Does he ask you questions? Is he interested in you and why you enjoy what you enjoy?
Simple things like this can help you analyze how he really feels about you. If he’s willing to go out of his comfort zone for you and show you that you’re important, chances are that he’s got serious feelings for you.
3 ways to know if a man is in love
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Let’s dive a little deeper, shall we, ladies? A man’s words will hold weight if his actions match them. There is nothing worse that a guy who tells you that he’s all about you but then doesn’t do anything to actually prove that.
So, if you want to know how to tell if a man is in love, ask yourself this. Does this man try his best when you need him? Does he show up when you need him to be involved in the relationship, when you need help, or when you need him to do something for you? If he does, he loves you. We live in a society where we are all so busy and it’s hard to make time for others, but if he’s prioritizing you and stepping up to the plate when you need (or want) him to, it’s a big deal and it’s a sign that he is in love.
And I’m not just talking about the fact that he’ll pay for you at a restaurant or that he gives you gifts. We need to look at things that go deeper than that. I teach my clients that we don’t receive an education on how to be vulnerable, so we don’t talk about out feelings, we don’t cry, and we don’t talk about love because it’s not “manly.”
Perhaps this guy hasn’t explicitly said, “I love you,” but if his actions show you that he does, you have your answer.
The next thing I want you to keep an eye out for is his attention to detail. A man that is in love will want to understand you and make you happy, so he will pay attention to the details about the information you give him. For example, you mentioned at one point that you love Italian food, so he makes a reservation at the best Italian place he knows so that he can take you there.
A man who pays attention to every piece of information that he can use to make you happy is a man that’s in love. We want to make sure that he’s doing everything in his power to make you feel good!
Make sure that you let him know that you appreciate these actions. Men (well, all human beings) are motivated by reward and if he feels like you don’t notice the things he’s doing for you, he might stop. Make sure you acknowledge and give him credit for the things he’s doing for you.
Last but not least, and this is a huge sign that he’s in love, look at whether or not he includes you in his projects and dreams. If he wants to travel the world and talks about including you in these plans, it means that he already considers you a big part of his life. This only happens when a man is in love.
So, if you’re realizing that this man is, in fact, in love with you, make sure to keep doing what you’re doing! Don’t stop living the life you’ve been living up until now, and you can maintain the interest and attraction between you.
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I wish you all the very best,
Your French relationship coach, Alex Cormont