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How to know if a man is in love (with you)

Are you wondering how to know if a man is in love? Let my guest expert, Alexandre Cormont, France’s #1 love and relationship expert tell you everything you need to know right here! Read more…

September 1, 2020 by Stacey Murphy | Comments Off

Blog, For Couples, For the Goddesses

Why men leave and your relationship goes dead

Have you ever had someone tell you that your soul mate will turn up once you stop trying so hard to find him? And when you heard that, did you roll your eyes? If you did, I can understand why – it sounds so counter-intuitive at best and, well, let’s face it, pretty damn […] Read more…

June 4, 2018 by Stacey Murphy | Comments Off

Client Raves

Before taking Stacey's course I had good self-confidence, love and sex life, but I knew there was more to explore to have a deeper awareness into me as a feminine powerhouse. What was eye-opening to me was I started out as good, but ended up hitting it way out of the ball park. The deeper dive with Stacey was so delicious and revealed even more of me which was delightful. What shifted the most for me was allowing myself to come from a much deeper authentic place. Since being in Stacey’s Rockin’ Love Goddess Program people find me much more intriguing, and the mental stimulation part of the program was huge and increased the level of intimacy with my partner!

Angela V., Nova Scotia, Canada

Sometimes the power to ignite your life is just beyond your reach. That's what I was facing before working with Stacey. During the course of our sessions, I began to share my risqué spoken word poetry, I was able to give voice to my desires in the boudoir, and my libido skyrocketed (as did my magnetic appeal to men). Since working with Stacey, I'm able to take my life to the next level, to be really authentic and expansive in the world. Now, I'm dressing as, acting like, and being seen as an uber-feminine Goddess. Friends (both male and female) have started to call me The Enchantress. I would most definitely recommend working with Stacey, you won’t regret it.

Em Richter, Toronto CN

Client “Hook Him & Keep Him” Program

Before working with Stacey, My self-confidence was not very high and my sex life was dull and boring. But after working with Stacey, I can honestly say that’s all behind me. Now I am able to openly express myself, my needs and desires without reservation. I am more assertive and excited about my sex life. And my partner is receiving many of the benefits. What shifted the most for me was my self- perception and self-love emotionally and physically. This new found self-confidence has been reflected back to me by others as they started to make comments that I seemed “more out-going and glowing”. My sex life is better than it’s ever been. My work with Stacey was so life changing that I wanted to continue our work together with her “Rockin’ Love Goddess” Program.

L Leakes, Orlando FL

Client “Sex Kitten Mastery” Program

To me, the “Seductress Mindset” step was a game changer. There were a lot of self-sabotaging behaviors I embodied and allowed to take over my relationships for many years. This step got me in touch with the fun and flirty aspect of myself, along with some self-analysis to say "cut the malarkey, already!" It helped me to simply enjoy the exchange between myself and men instead of looking at it in a transactional format. I learned how to heal the wounds and now men are showing interest and holding it. Since being in the Boot Camp, I got asked out by 4 men in a span of 2 weeks. This has NEVER happened. It’s a phenomenal feeling!

Adeline R., Orlando, FL

Stacey helped me work through the “WHY” of what had me feeling undeserving of love and affection. Now the world occurs differently to me. It's a new and exciting reality in which I feel at peace having care and attention lavished on me by great guys, because I DESERVE it. With the Seductress Persona we created, this is now my new "normal!” I've noticed that EVERYONE, not just dates, experience me differently. This has affected my career in a positive way as my new found confidence helped me manifest a new job paying me $50,000 more...
Truly AMAZING!

Jane O., Sydney, Australia

Before working with Stacey, I was incredibly shy and insecure about my ability to communicate and perform sexually. I grew up in a strict religious family where there was no discussion about the subject. I was embarrassed to admit that I didn’t know “simple things” that a grown woman “should”. I would even refrain from sex for fear of doing something wrong. First, I noticed a significant positive change in my confidence level. I was finally empowered with the manual to rock my sexual confidence. Secondly, the communication between my boyfriend and I became much stronger. Not only did he appreciate and enjoy my new found confidence and skill, he appreciated being introduced to my new confidence. Both changes in turn resulted in the best level of intense satisfaction and intimacy that we both have ever had with any other partner.

Ebony G, Orlando FL

Student: Art of Seduction, Secrets of the Oral Arts: Pleasing Your Man

Prior to working with Stacey, I had good self-confidence, but I was lacking consistency and endurance in my relationships. I know I needed more help and training. I feel I’m looking at things more positively in love since starting the training. What has shift the most for me since starting the program has been my attitude and the positive outlook I have about attracting true love, which before now I had been thinking wasn’t for me. With the coaching, which has significantly helped in shifting my thinking, I’ve attracted a new love in my life. The relationship is early, so the coaching is helping me to remain positive and not repeat mistakes of the past. After each session, I come away with new depth and insight from my work with Stacey and I’m seriously grateful for these days right now.

Shannon Holt, Orlando FL

Client “Hook Him & Keep Him: Finding Mr. Right” Program

Stacey gave me the tools and knowledge through my journey of transformation to experience the inner peace and freedom of what it is to own my power of sexiness. I feel sexy, beautiful and sensual in all I do. My presence exudes gracefulness and exoticness effortlessly. From my work with Stacey, I saw benefits in other areas of my life. If felt stuck for 2 years, and with my new sexy self-confidence, I was able to go after and land a new job paying me $20,000 more! Love you girl!!

Rebecca W, Tampa FL

Client “Be a Rockin’ Love Goddess” Program

I’ve been on a journey of opening myself up to love and after my Passionate You Discovery Session, I applied Stacey’s insight to enhance my dating site experience to have fun and to have the chance to master the man code in my communication. As well as to enjoy flirting with two men on a dating site that I thoroughly enjoyed…and left them wanting more. That felt so good. I felt a lot more comfortable and willing to treat each man with love and appreciation…a whole different experience for me and maybe for them as well.

Melanie Hill, Orlando FL

Client, Passionate You Discovery Session

Before working with Stacey, I was incredibly hard on myself and my body. I was so focused on the negative and felt so poorly about myself that I didn’t think I was worth dating. The first thing that changed was my confidence. After I started focusing on all of the great things I had going on, as well as all of the things I was doing to make positive changes in my life, my confidence went through the roof. I’ve lost weight and I’ve started to put myself out there. I recently met someone and while I don’t know where it will go, I’m feeling excited to find out and believe that I am worth this great guy. My friends have made several comments about how happy they are for me since they see how much better I feel about myself. Since I’ve felt better, I find that I’m attracting more people.

Kari K., Pennsylvania

Client “Rock Your Bodacious Body & Art of Wooing” Program