Struggling to attract (or keep) a high-quality man?

Feeling stuck in life just getting by? 

Struggling with your confidence & self-worth? 

Dealing with money blocks? 

Finally!! A mentorship program that packs a sassy punch!

To have it ALL! A Quality Man, the Commitment YOU want and BEing Spoiled like a Queen, then you need the… 

Spoiled Girlfriend Program! 

  • You’re afraid of making a mistake, so you may have a tendency to procrastinate or don’t try at all.
  • To keep the peace, you have a habit of doing what others want even if you don’t agree, then you feel resentment about it.
  • You want to feel as if you’re being seen, heard and valued but you’re afraid to put yourself out there to experience more.
  • You would love to unleash your inner seductress and feel like one of those enchanting women you see in the movies, adored by men and totally comfortable with it, but you can’t imagine being that bold.
  • You know that your lack of confidence is showing up all over the place—in the office, in your family dynamic and yes, in the bedroom.
  • You are painfully aware that you are NOT living the fullest expression of your inner Vixen, and because of that, you aren’t living your most fulfilling life!  
  • You’re living a ho-hum life just surviving from day-to-day and for goodness sake, you want to THRIVE in both life and love.

What would it feel to have the man & the money? How would it feel to have it all? 

What if you could…

  • Command the attention of any room you entered with ease? 
  • Escape the pressing need for approval from others because you are SO in-tune with your talents and self-worth? 
  • Welcome abundance into your life with joy instead of trepidation? 
  • No longer be afraid of your intimate wants and needs, and master the art of seduction?  
  • Appreciate your body as beautiful and sensual and be showered with the adoration of your partner? 
  • Exude amazing charisma and seduction?  

This is all possible for you, no matter your age, size, background, or current relationship status.  

If any of this is calling you, you need this program.  


I’m an introvert, and growing up, I had low self-confidence. 

I was that girl standing in the back of the room, desperately wanting men to pay attention to me, but I was so unsure and too shy to put myself out there.  

I went from experiencing toxic love in my 20's from an abusive relationship TO being a woman who is deliciously spoiled with time, attention, love, and more from a select stable of men.  

I’ve broken every stereotype or reason women use to explain their ho-hum life. And now, I’m teaching you the very same things to move you forward. And, my confidence and charisma gave me the strength, passion and desire to start my own business and BE my own woman. So YES! I have the money and the men, and so can you. 

Since then, I have worked with thousands of women all over the world, helping them gain a new understanding of their self-worth, a new and healthier view of their sexuality, and the power they possess to attract a first class life!

I’ve found the formula that modern women need, to step into their girl power and enjoy it, and now I want to share it with you. 

The Spoiled Girlfriend Program is based on… 


I created the Spoiled Girlfriend Program: The Art of Attracting the Man & the Money as a Vixen treatment for the WHOLE woman.  

A traditional love coach won’t give you a program this comprehensive. And, to be completely honest, no matter how many books you’ve read, videos you watch, audios you listen to or advice columns you read, you really need to address upfront any issues you may have with men, sex and money so you’re able to improve the quality of men you’re attracting.  

You have to do that first in order to have the amazing relationship with a quality man who will spoil you like a Queen. 

It’s time to upgrade your life! 

It’s time to break your old patterns and stop telling yourself the same old lies. You know the ones – when you tell yourself… 

  • That no one will love you until you lose 20 lbs., or  
  • You’re too busy to think about love, or  
  • You could never be confident enough to speak in front of a roomful of people 

…these are all things that stem from a deep-seated fear of change and a misplaced sense of self-worth. 

It’s time to get out of your own way and upgrade to a first-class life!  

In Just (12) Twelve Months, you’ll learn a step-by-step formula that will: 

  • ​Teach you to master my exclusive Man & Money Success Path​
  • Teach you to be a charismatic leader by day by knowing how to exude amazing personal magnetism.
  • Teach you to be an enchanting lover at night.
  • Develop a powerful presence to be more persuasive and influential with men and in your professional life.
  • Heal any old wounds, limiting beliefs and toxic patterns that have prevented you from being an authentic high-value woman.
  • Master the secret to understanding men (professional & romantic)
  • Teach you the art of loving men which allows you to attract with ease.
  • Teach you powerful flirting skills making it easy to command a room and a man’s attention.
  • Teach you how to use your womanly charms​,​ professionally and personally​,​ to be authentically persuasive 
  • Teach you to break the cycle of sabotaging behavior, ​and effectively communicate, as you stand proud in your feminine power​​ 
  • Teach you to exude amazing body confidence and accept your divine femininity 
  • Teach you to master the High-Value Woman (​​Vixen​) mindset to ​personal​ly capture a man's mind so you can mesmerize his heart ​​AND ​to ​professionally be seen, heard and taken seriously  
  • Teach you to master the 3 levels of Vixenhood: Charisma (Level 1)​, Seduction (Level 2)​, Sex ​Kitten (Level 3) ​​- from the bedroom to the boardroom.
  • Teach you to “own” a room and lead with confidence no matter what kind of situation you’re in.
  • Hone your attraction skills to hook a high-quality man ready to commit and spoil you like a Queen! 
  • Teach you to rock your charisma and self-confidence (critical for networking) to increase your income potential (business or career)​​ 
  • Learn ​c​harm​ school basics for AMAZING confidence & poise​: Love Goddess Persona Development (Sexy Secret Identity), Art of Flirting/Body Language Techniques, "Vixen ​Voice" Training, Art of Sensual Talk & Conversation, Master the Art of Dating!

But don’t just take my word for it. 

“Before working with Stacey in the Love Goddess Program, I was very constrained by my "good girl" upbringing. As an introvert, I felt quite hopeless about my inability to connect with men. Now I feel at peace having care and attention lavished on me by great guys because I DESERVE it. Also, I've noticed that EVERYONE experiences me differently. This has affected my career in a positive way as my new found confidence helped me manifest a new job paying me $50,000 more...Truly AMAZING!" 

- Jane Oldham, Sydney, Australia

“Before taking Stacey's course, I had good self-confidence, love and sex life, but I knew there was more to explore to have a deeper awareness into me as a feminine powerhouse. Since being in Stacey’s Rockin’ Love Goddess Program, people find me much more intriguing, and the mental stimulation part of the program was huge and increased the level of intimacy with my partner.”  

- Angela Van De Riet, Nova Scotia Canada  

“Before working with Stacey, I didn’t have much, if any, confidence in my ability to attract the kind of man I really wanted. Through Stacey’s coaching, I definitely know I’m good enough and worthy of love. These aren’t just words anymore, I truly feel and believe it now. As for my love life, I am so much happier with my dating life. As I was working with Stacey, I met a great guy that I’m moving forward with. We’ve been dating for several months and I firmly believe he’s worthy of me (and vice-versa).”  

- Kari Kifer, Pittsburgh, PA 

Give yourself permission to LOVE Men, Sex and Money 

Give yourself permission to own your Girl Power! Step into being a woman who turns heads and is living joyfully! 

Create the relationship and life you want on your own terms 

Here’s what you’ll get! 




You start your journey with self-mastery as you work on transforming your self-image and confidence. Using powerful techniques, you will start to transform any fear, resistance, insecurity & doubt from your past. As you do this, you will boost your self-confidence and magnetic appeal - shedding the old you to usher in a more confident you. Develop self-awareness, boost self-confidence & create your ideal self-image. You will also High-Value woman qualities Automate your self-love 




This is where you start to learn navigating the terrain of Mars – his peaks and valleys. This month, it will be about men and the mind. You will start to master the Man Magnet Blueprint, the roadmap to understanding men. You’re going to learn the mental, emotional and sexual nature of men, why they do what they do and the manners in which men operate differently than women when it comes to love.  

You will discover how the male mind works (the KEY to commitment!) and how to get the emotional connection you crave. You will address your own sabotaging behaviors, so you can stop any crazy-making behavior in your love and business relationships. You will learn the powerful Vixen mindsets that will endear you to men leading to the commitment you want. 




You will learn how it feels to finally step into your true power as a badass woman. Learn from the divine Divas throughout history who perfected their craft of feminine seduction; who captivated the minds and hearts of men. You will break through long-standing fears and resistance concerning feeling sexy and being desirable to men. You will discover your sexy secret identity that already lives within you, but you’ve been hiding.  

Through the Love Goddess Mastery System, all of you will finally come out and play for maximum charisma and seductive impact. You will re-discover or re-invent your signature style personality & own it as you – you will rehab your wardrobe, master your makeup and develop your signature Vixen scent. You will build confidence in environments where you previously felt intimidated and anxious.  

When you start to feel sexy, you become sexy! 

“Before working with Stacey, my self-confidence was very low. I was struggling hard with my work life and love life not understanding why I could not attract a quality man. I was making the same mistakes in life and love. Since working with Stacey, I've manifested a new job which was a 25,000 pay raise and tremendous benefits. The biggest shift for me was learning how to understand and relate to men. Other people now see my worth.”  

- Jennifer Walker, Atlanta, GA 

After the first three months, you will be well on your way to the self-image and life that you want! As your confidence grows, your High-Powered V.I.X.E.N. qualities will be smokin’ hot as you begin your transformation into the It Girl, the VIXEN - the one who turns heads everywhere you go! Now, you’re going to learn to be persuasive. 




You will learn what to say, when to say it and how to say what’s truly on your mind. Through the Art of Conversation, you will acquire the skills to verbally mesmerize or seduce on 3 levels:  

  • Level 1: Innocent Banter (everyday encounters) 
  • Level 2: Seductive Sassiness (social/intimate rendezvous), and  
  • Level 3: Erotic Talking (intimate engagements) 

Through the effective intimacy communication formula, you will learn to communicate your needs, wants, desires and frustrations with impact - in and out of the bedroom. As well as the different types of erotic talk. You will understand the differences between male and female communication, and recognize the love languages in yourself and a potential mate.  

The cherry on top will be your Vixen Voice Training, where you will learn how to train your voice to sound luscious and hypnotic. 




This skill set covers your presence and persuasiveness in a professional and personal manner. You will start this month by understanding body language and the body code as you study how to flirt and communicate without words. You will discover and develop your specific flirting language and style.  

You will learn the sexy and attractive way to flirt above the waist (using your face, eyes, mouth, hair, etc) as well as to sit, stand, and walk (both professional and personal). You will learn the secrets to make a powerful entrance into a room. Discover the differences between work-appropriate flirting (charisma) and playful flirting (seduction). You will learn how to use various flirting props to blow your man's mind with sexual intrigue.  




Learn how to spot high-quality man and the common attributes they have. You will learn how to rev up and magnify your man magnet power on a DAILY basis, so you can have favorable experiences with men.  

If you’ve ever been indecisive as to whether you should love a man or leave him, you will finally get a system to help you resolve these dilemmas. You will be given a way of rating the men in your life (past and present) guaranteed to save you time, money and heartache. You will no longer waste your precious energy on the donkeys but instead empower yourself to attract the Stallions.  

You will be equipped to spot and select the High-Quality Man when he comes into your life (thank you Law of Attraction!) and confidently build that relationship! 

“Stacey gave me the tools and knowledge through my journey of transformation to experience the inner peace and freedom of what it is to own my power of sexiness. I was finally able to drop my sabotaging behavior and instead feel sexy, beautiful and sensual in all I do. With my new sexy self-confidence, I was able to go after and land a new job paying me $20,000 more! Love you girl!!”  

- Rebecca W, Tampa FL  

At this point in your journey, you continue to master your life. You’ve delved into the male mind, and you’re starting to harness the power of your persuasiveness - you will be unstoppable! Knowing yourself inside and out are key ingredients to becoming the High-Value Woman that every man desires. Now you will call your man to you and ROCK the Art of Dating.




You will be given a roadmap with the steps to create your relationship by design vs default in the 7 key relationship areas. This will put you in the driver’s seat of your love life. You will be empowered to select the relationship model that is right for you as well as the (6) relationship levels, so you will get clear and discover which level is the best match for you 

You will design your relationship focusing on the 7 key relationship areas by being detailed, clear and concise: Mental, Emotional, Spiritual, Physical, Sexual, Financial, and Social. 

You will affirm what you want in a partner, how you want to be treated in your relationship and how you desire to show up in your relationship.  




From here, you will learn how to be an Online Dating Diva to usher this desire into your life – online dating mindset, effective profile writing and learn how to move the conversation from online to in-person. 

This month will also focus on making a good first impression by emphasizing your “Approach” and demonstrating your feminine sex appeal. This is where you put everything together in a routine that will have your man awe-struck from the time you walk in the door. You will learn to prolong your powerful presence in the company of any man. 

Main Elements: Your stance, surveying the room, walk with juicy confidence and conviction. 




You will learn how to reel him into your WEB by putting it all together through conversation, communication and flirting from the waist up. This training focuses on mental seduction and your sex appeal, the first 2 building blocks in how to capture a man's attention. The main elements: Conversation, flirting above the waist and voice. 

Then your training will focus on escalating the thrill of the chase, leave him craving for more. The main elements: Persona, Eye-Contact, Vixen Conversation, Vixen Voice, Sex Appeal with Flirting above and below the waist. All of the training will lead to leaving your man with a powerful lasting impression.

"Sometimes the power to ignite your life is just beyond your reach. That's what I was facing before working with Stacey. Since working with Stacey, I'm able to take my life to the next level, to be really authentic and expansive in the world. Now, I'm dressing as, acting like, and being seen as an uber-feminine Goddess. I would most definitely recommend working with Stacey, you won’t regret it."  

- Em Richter, Toronto CN

With your communication basics beefed up, with a focus on flirting, that will have you engaging High-Quality Men in meaningful conversation - keeping their attention on you even when you aren’t in the room. Finally, it’s time for you to be spoiled like a Queen and to experience mind-blowing, toe-curling sex that you’ll revel in!  




You will learn to cultivate a positive money mindset to transform your relationship with money. You will be given action steps, so you can set millionaire money goals and intentions. You will plug any of your money leaks, to grow your bank account.  

You will learn the link between men, sex and money and how working on one issue will enhance all the others. By understanding the sexual energy of money, you give yourself power to attract it with joy versus struggle.  

You will set money, career and business goals. And now that you’ve designed the relationship you want, through scripts and conversation, you will now design your first-class lifestyle to magnetize a man to spoil you not only with his time, but with his money as well. Through the various tools and assignments, you will put yourself in the life you desire to have.  




You will discover and master the true meaning of intimacy as you reclaim your sexual joy and release your inhibitions. You will learn the importance of sex in a relationship, how men view sex with the woman they love and what a man’s path to love is compared to a woman’s path.  

You will learn how to empower your sexual voice and make peace with perceived sexual taboos, what erotic skills you need to master to take your man to nirvana and back.  

This month you will also develop your personal “Sex Kitten Toy Chest”, you will learn (and practice) several erotic Tantric Seduction routines as well as employ the mesmerizing “3-Course Meal” of Seduction. 




You will learn my signature erotic training Secrets of the Oral Arts: Pleasing Your Man, PhD. The PhD level is only offered in this program. You will learn the male sexual anatomy, male response and how to teach your man to prolong your play. You will learn advanced hand-pleasuring techniques, spellbinding oral-pleasuring techniques and rocket boosters. If you don’t know what rocket boosters are, you’ll get a deep dive training as to what they are. 

You simply won’t find a more comprehensive program focused on men, love, sex and money that up-levels your life by day AND by night. It WILL transform the very essence of who you are, in just twelve months. 

"Thank you so much Stacey! I’m blown away how three men have come into my life since doing the Boot Camp. It’s my Hook Him & Keep Him Blueprint coming to life. I find that I am simply opening myself up more instead of practicing my usual "mind reading" tactics as though I know exactly “who the men are” even before meeting them. Stacey's program and teachings simply rock! It works! Let's start allowing and dating! We were not put here to be alone!"  

- Ms. Kelley, Atlanta GA

This is what you get— 

  • 24 One-on-One Sessions with me

  • Over 24 comprehensive Coaching Sessions (over 75 hours) will be delivered to your inbox with me guiding you through a powerful coaching process focused on YOU and your desire to attract a Quality Man & a First-Class Life.

  • (2) One-on-One 3-Day Live Retreats with Stacey in Orlando FL

  • A special invitation to the Vixen Man Panel Discussion so you can hear from a group of high-quality men that want to talk to you.  
  • Program audio and video trainings, eBooks and workbooks to fit your learning style.  
  • Lovework Action Guides for each course session so you can implement a proven system to step into your Girl Power and attract a High-Quality Man.  
  • Part One of the program (Months 1 – 6) focuses on YOU and the skills needed to Get the GUY - understanding men as well as ramping up your persuasion and influence, so you can be a confident woman exuding amazing self-esteem in work and play. This allows you to be simply irresistible!  
  • Part Two of the program (Months 7 - 12) focuses on Calling in the ONE (or many) and the skills needed to Keep the GUY! Now that your foundation is strong, you are ready to call in the love of your life with an open heart! And, when you’re with your man, money and sex will be a joyful experience vs turning into a problem.  
  • A community of women for moral support and connection.


An overall experience of LUXURY which prepares you for BEING with Men of Means.


RETREAT PACKAGE (Value, $6500)

The Retreats Will Give You a Taste of the Luxury Lifestyle, so You're Comfortable in this NEW World.  


1) Is this training worthwhile if I’m still healing from a painful breakup? 

Yes, because this training will help you heal faster from the breakup. You will learn to be a powerful woman, with amazing self-confidence, allowing you to attract a High-Quality Man with ease. 

2) What if this just isn’t a good time? I’m too busy right now. 

In our society, there will always be something we have to do, so we end up putting our deepest needs on the backburner. This is the precise energy that attracts a man who won’t commit. Or, why you feel stuck in your job or career. Women ready to own their worth take empowered action to change the circumstances in their life vs waiting. 

If you want a man (or job) to commit to you for a lifetime, then you can commit to yourself for 12 months. 

3) If I haven’t dated for a while, or I’m currently not dating, will this program work for me? 

Heck Yes! This program is created just for you. It’s never failed, but at some point in the training, men just spring up for the women in the training. So they have a stable of Stallions on who to practice this dynamic training on. This program is perfect if you’re just getting into the dating game, if you’re returning to the dating scene after a long siesta or if you’re dating someone and you want to make sure you don’t mess it up by falling into sabotaging behavior. 

4) How is the Spoiled Girlfriend program different from others out there? 

This program merges the principles of the Law of Attraction with the Art of Seduction. Many of us are familiar with the law of attraction, but unfamiliar with the art of seduction. The other side of seduction is charisma. Charisma is key in being a powerful leader and leaders are the ones who earn the money! Other programs just focus on the fluffy-bunny stuff, but this program is about real life and addresses the key issues that break relationships up… that being, money & sex! 

5) Is it worth the money? 

According to women who have taken my program, they said, “Yes”. Ladies, let’s be real, we spend money on temporary highs – clothes, hair, nails, eating out. This program isn’t a temporary fix. An investment in you produces a lifetime of benefits and highs. My clients have increased their annual income by $20,000, $25,000 and $50,000. So, is it worth the money? 

6) What if this doesn’t work? 

Is what you’re currently doing working for you? If you said, “No”, then you need to shake it up and do something different that HAS WORKED for my clients. If you’re fishing in the same pond, but expecting different results, that’s the definition of insanity. This isn’t a book or YouTube video, you’ll be working with a coach who has years of successfully helping women to THRIVE. 

Women are sacred, beautiful and dynamic beings. 

We are mothers, CEOs, entrepreneurs, homemakers. But we are also Vixens, Goddesses and Enchanting Lovers. 

YOU are all of those things. And you owe it to yourself to live the fullest expression of your power.  

Listen to your intuition – you’ll KNOW if this program is for you. 

Drop into your heart and ask yourself this--- 

Am I 100% satisfied with my life the way it is now? 

If you answered “no” there is a breakdown somewhere. There’s some gap between who you are at your core, and what you’re presenting to the rest of the world in your day to day life.  

It’s time to close that gap and start loving life! And, loving YOURSELF! 

Let’s ROCK IT! 

I can’t wait to get started.